There is no constant friend at all

We all know the feeling: in the game of life, why am I the only one who doesn’t know how to play? But now, help is at hand, because   this wonderful little discussion will teach you the difference types of friends and rules so that you can conquer life’s challenges and manage its unpredictable ups and downs.  This issue is provides certain lessons we all need to learn. Lessons are what you learn when you come up against problems that need to be solved and issue that need to be exorcised. I hope this discussion will help you by studying valuable lessons and wisdom they offer your journey on this earth might just be a little bit easier. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Learning does not end. Lessons are repeated until learned.I decided to compose a list of basic truths about life, which I named “there is no constant friend at all “base of my investigations I will try to meet some people and to ask whether there is a constant friend or not? What is the Definition of friend? Friend   is a person you know well and regard with affection and trust.

There is no constant friend at all;

Some people believe there is a constant friend and they say’ a real friend is one who is there always for you in good times and in bad. A real friend is there to comfort you when you’re hurting and celebrate with you when you’re happy. A real friend is one you don’t have to work hard to keep, you can pick up on a conversation after weeks or months of not talking and it’s like you were never apart. A real friend agrees to disagree. A real friend will make time for you when you need them. A real friend knows the boundaries, and understands when they cross those boundaries that you will be upset. A real friend talks through a fight to resolve it so you can still be friends. A real friend knows that you may have out grown each other but remains in the background just in case. A real friend cares always’

Some people believe also there is a constant friend but the friend should fill certain conditions and the conditions are “someone that will respect your ideas, stand by your side during a rough patch, will take the time to listen to silly stuff and unimportant things, never talk behind your back, someone that will talk with you on the phone endlessly, helps you with any problem, always cheer you up when down, share true feelings and emotions with you, support you when needed ,never be judgmental but opinionated, true friends actually care about your well-being” they concluded if you find that condition for a person it should be considered the constant one if the person miss any condition that one is not your constant friend and when you meet that person just respect as normal friend.

Some people believe that there is no a constant friend but the friends are interest. When I was reading some articles about a conflict of interest I found some manager of a company  had conflicted with his friend and the manager  explained why he lost with his friend   and he said “ I  have  a staff member who has been working for me for the last two years . He is also good friend of mine as well. Base on his performance and experience, I have paid him as much as I think is appropriate. However, he still believes the company is not paying him enough. I have conveyed my thought to him already however he; However he has not changed his mind.  He is also not happy with the culture and the operating procedures /processes.

As to conclude, I don’t believe that there is constant friend but I believe the closer to you is only ALLAH   because Allah can give you whatever Allah wants. However the constant friend for the world is your parents and your wives and your children   Furthermore there is a friend mate and friend mate means the one who you may stay long in special area such as classmate, housemate or others, those friends may be considered as normal friends because they respect you and you should respect them. Please if you want to make comment or to agree or disagree please send me at my email which is kawawa56@yahoo.com

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